A lot of the times, we either think we have more friends than we think or we have less friends than we think. When someone asks you to name your true friends, who do you name?
When you sit with a group of people, a couple emotions may occur. A feeling that you must impress them. A feeling of not belonging. A feeling of excitement and joy. A feeling that you don’t know them. From personal experience, I found that when you first sit in a group and feel that you don’t need to impress the people around you, you found your friends. Well isn’t that obvious? Well, of course. we all say it without realizing that we all have probably tried to impress people. Before, I sat with people and had that slimy feeling of not belonging. Nobody would listen, there would always be a little uncomfortableness and confusion. Of course, I still love those people, but do I recognize them as true friends?
Today, a sit or stand with people that hear me out and listen to what I have to say. Everyone in the group of people is heard and nobody has a feeling of being left out. True friend bundle together, always accepting, listening. I no longer feel that I must impress my friends. After all, they should love you and be your friend for who you are.
I can name the names of my true friends and be confident. I don’t need to hesitate. The list is set. They accept me and I accept them and the feeling of joy and excitement is ALWAYS there.
Questions probably going to be asked:
1. Are you talking about your school friends? - Yes and other friends from EVERYWHERE :) My life doesn’t end at school
2. Who is on your list?- That personal beeswax. if you fit the description and feel the same way, them you’re prolly one of them.
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